[She wonders how much of this is Charles genuinely wanting to mould her into something specific and how much of it is Raven misinterpreting his motives. But it doesn't really matter for the purposes of this conversation.]

That'll work for now. But in six months, one year, two - you'll resent him. He'll feel guilty. He'll push you away because he'll think it's what you need. You'll feel rejected and he'll feel like his influence on you is toxic. That kind of hurt is a lot more complicated.